Square dancing might seem like an unusual addition to a tech-heavy life, but it’s become one of my anchors. Every week — sometimes two or even three times — I lace up my dancing shoes, head to a local hall, and immerse myself in the rhythm, the steps, and the people.
There’s something almost magical about being part of a coordinated movement with others. You have to trust them, move together, and enjoy the music. For a couple of hours, work stress, deadlines, and screens vanish. You’re just present, laughing at your own missteps and celebrating the collective flow.
Late this summer, an unexpected connection happened — one that reminded me why these hobbies are more than just “fun.” One of my fellow dancers mentioned that they were part of a small Mensa group, and they were looking for someone to write a simple networking app for their members. That casual, offhand conversation led directly to what would become my Mensa app project. Who knew a few hours of square dancing could spark a full-fledged tech project?
It was a beautiful reminder that hobbies are not separate from life — they’re deeply intertwined. The energy, creativity, and human connection cultivated in the dance hall flowed directly into a new opportunity in my professional world. And it all started because I showed up, moved my feet, and stayed open to the possibilities.
Takeaway: Engaging in activities that demand presence and connection — even something as unexpected as square dancing — can open doors you never imagined. Sometimes, the most fruitful “networking” happens away from the keyboard.